If You Want To Change The world, Love A Man

This poem which is credited to a Lauren Wilceuy seems to be popular with the 

tantra crowd as I’ve seen it posted by more than a few tantrikas and women that are into the science of tantra/ tantric yoga. 

I like the message, maybe you will find some inspiration in it too

IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THE WORLD, LOVE A MAN

If you want to change the world love a man; really love him
Choose the one whose soul calls to yours clearly who sees you;
who is brave enough to be afraid


Accept his hand and guide him gently to your hearts blood

Where he can feel your warmth upon him and rest there
And burn his heavy load in your fires
Look into his eyes, look deep within and see what lies dormant or awake or shy or expectant there
Look into his eyes and see there his fathers and grandfathers and all the wars and madness their spirits fought in some distant land, some distant time
Look upon their pains and struggles and torments and guilt; without judgment
And let it all go
Feel into his ancestral burden
And know that what he seeks is safe refuge in you
Let him melt in your steady gaze
And know that you need not mirror that rage
Because you have a womb, a sweet, deep gateway to wash and renew old wounds
If you want to change the world love a man, really love him
Sit before him, in the full majesty of your woman in the breath of your vulnerability
In the play of your child innocence in the depths of your death
Flowering invitation, softly yielding, allowing his power as a man
To step forward towards you…and swim in the Earth’s womb, in silent knowing, together
And when he retreats…because he will…flees in fear to his cave…
Gather your grandmothers around you…envelope in their wisdoms
Hear their gentle ‘shusshhhed’ whispers, calm your frightened girls’ heart
Urging you to be still…and wait patiently for his return
Sit and sing by his door, a song of remembrance, that he may be soothed, once more
If you want to change the world, love a man, really love him
Do not coax out his little boy
With guiles and wiles and seduction and trickery
Only to lure him…to a web of destruction
To a place of chaos and hatred
More terrible than any war fought by his brothers
This is not feminine, this is revenge
This is the poison of the twisted lines
Of the abuse of the ages, the rape of our world
And this gives no power to woman, it reduces her as she cuts off his balls
And it kills us all
And whether his mother held him or could not
Show him the true mother now
Hold him and guide him in your grace and your depth
Smoldering in the center of the Earth’s core
Do not punish him for his wounds that you think don’t meet your needs or criteria
Cry for him sweet rivers
Bleed it all back home
If you want to change the world love a man, really love him
Love him enough to be naked and free
Love him enough to open your body and soul to the cycle of birth and of death
And thank him for the opportunity
As you dance together through the raging winds and silent woods
Be brave enough to be fragile and let him drink in the soft, heady petals of your being
Let him know he can hold you, stand up and protect you
Fall back into his arms and trust him to catch you
Even if you’ve been dropped a thousand times before
Teach him how to surrender by surrendering yourself
And merge into the sweet nothing, of this worlds’ heart
If you want to change the world, love a man, really love him
Encourage him, feed him, allow him, hear him, hold him, heal him
And you, in turn, will be nourished and supported and protected
By strong arms and clear thoughts and focused arrows
Because he can, if you let him, be all that you dream
If you want to love a man,
love yourself, love your father, love your brother, your son, your ex-partner;
from the first boy you kissed, to the last one you wept over
Give thanks for the gifts; of your unraveling to this meeting
Of the one who stands before you now
And find in him the seed to all that’s new and solar
A seed that you can feed to help direct the planting
To grow a new world, together.
~Lauren Wilceuy

ChlorOxygen Benefits of Chlorophyll Supplement

I wanted to add an update on the benefits of the supplement ChlorOxygen.

First off, what the heck is Chlorophyll?

Chlorophyll is the green pigment in plants that harnesses the sun’s energy in photosynthesis. Chlorophyll performs metabolic functions in plants such as respiration and growth.

OK, so why would I, who am NOT a plant, want to take it?

Well, if any of the following apply to you, that’s why:

  1. Alleviate suffering from high altitude sickness naturally and FAST! Symptoms of altitude sicknes include shortness of breath, headache, disorientation, nausea.
  2. Desire to increase red blood cell oxygenation – explains why it works so good on relieving altitude sickness.
  3. You’d like more life energy from a natural source that’s not caffeine or some other stimulant.

I think of ChlorOxygen as INSTANT ALTITUDE ACCLIMATION in a bottle – Just Add Water!

This is  a link to my personal story

SO WHAT’s the best brand to take and where do I buy it?

PURCHASE ChlorOxygen Regular

BUY ChlorOxygen Mint


Remember to use code IHE882 to save $5.00 to $10.00 off your first order!

Each ounce of Herb’s Etc. Chlorophyll Concentrate contains as much Chlorophyll as one or two 16 ounce bottles of other brands. Each ounce contains approximately 2,950 milligrams of Chlorophyll.

What makes ChlorOxygen Chlorophyll Concentrate such  an awesome product?

  • It is the best tasting chlorophyll on the market.
    More consumers choose ChlorOxygen for its mild yet tasty sweet grass taste over other chlorophyll brands.
  • It is preservative-free and alcohol-free.
    Since ChlorOxygen is low in water, it does not need preservatives like other chlorophyll products. It is also alcohol-free.
  • It is the only chlorophyll that doesn’t require refrigeration.
    ChlorOxygen is the only liquid chlorophyll on the market that doesn’t require refrigeration, which makes it way convenient. This is very helpful especially when traveling.
  • It offers superior value.
    ChlorOxygen is highly concentrated. It takes up to two 16 oz. bottles of the competition’s chlorophyll to equal a one ounce bottle of Chloroxygen. So you know you’re getting excellent value for your money with ChlorOxygen Chlorophyll Concentrate.

SUGGESTED Use: Each 36-drop dose delivers 100 milligrams of Chlorophyll Concentrate. Take 18-36 drops twice a day in 8 ounces of water.

Caution: Dark green stools may occur.  I have found this to be true when taking it for the first time or when I haven’t taken any in a while and consuming the maximum daily suggested amount.  However, the body seems to acclimate to this after a day or two and that side effect tends to diminish.

Chloroxygen is USA grown and manufactured by Herbs Etc.  It is organic, GMO-free, pesticide-free and BSE safe.

Consider this: over 60% of the dietary supplement ingredients currently come from China. Herbs Etc. is American, family run organic business.

BETTER SEX: Vaginal Rejuvenation Is All the Rage

1069414_gender_symbolsWhen Kegels aren’t enough.

Men have their Viagra, Cialis and Levitra magic pills.

They have their penile implants (eeks!) and they have their penis pumps (not to be confused with gas pumps or breast pumps).

Now It’s The Womens’ Turn to turn the spotlight onto the latest sexual enhancement.

Women can enjoy better sex, say goodbye to incontinence and experience increased confidence in their sexuality all thanks to a quick and simple surgery known as vaginal rejuvenation.

Let’s be real. It’s not always the man’s fault for bad sex.

Sometimes time and babies do their damage and things need to get a little remodel or overhaul, so to speak.

Although I’ve heard about V. R. (no, not virtual reality), some time ago, it’s been surfacing in the media lately.

Take for instance, ABC’s new sitcom, Cougar Town with Courtney Cox –  the (34-49 demo) ladies at work love it.

In a recent episode, one of the characters labeled an older ‘cougar’, 48, is getting a bikini wax and she jokes to the esthetician about how she’s ’19’ down there thanks to vaginal rejuvenation surgery.

Thanks to Hulu.com, I also got sucked in to the premier of the racy (and absurd) drama, Nip/Tuck.

This seasons storyline is using the growing popularity of this procedure as the golden ticket out of the main characters’ financial woes.

In movie land, this summer saw the Ashton Kutcher – Anne Heche film, SPREAD (2009) in which Ashton’s character pimps himself out to a rich cougar (Heche) in swank Beverly Hills.

Heche’s character goes in for an overnight operation in which she’s not allowed to have sex for a few days because as the doctor explains with hand gestures, he removed fat tissue from one part and injected it inside her vagina to make it extra tight (rejuvination).

Well, being the inquisitive guy I am, I just had to see if there are any before /after pics online to see just they mean.

So what exactly does this look like?

Warning – this link takes you to a medical site that leaves NOTHING to the imagination.

Vaginal Rejuvenation Before and After pictures

Seems like we’re living in the age where hardly anything is to taboo to talk about.